Don’t Quarrel with the Way

(commentary from Sparks Beneath the Surface, page 57)

Saturday, December 7, 2013

11thTorahPortion, 11th in Genesis – Vayigash

44:18-47:27 (106 verses)

Synopsis

               Judah pleas with Joseph to free Benjamin. He offers himself as a replacement. Joseph reveals himself to his brothers and forgives them for selling him into slavery. Jacob learns that his son, Joseph is still alive and goes to Egypt. Pharaoh permits Joseph’s family to live in Goshen.

Text

24) And he [Joseph] sent his brothers off and as they left he said to them, ‘Don’t quarrel on the way.’ 25) So they went up from Egypt and came to their father, Jacob, in yhe land of Canaan. 26) And told him thus, ‘Joseph is still alive; he is a ruler over the land of Egypt.’ His [Jacob’s] heart fluttered because he couldn’t believe them (45:24-26).

Commentary

Genesis Rabbah 94:2 describes the quarrel between the brothers as an argument among them about whether they should rush home to their father or not. The Midrash suggests they not rush because the pace has been determined [by God] so that they will enter towns during the daylight hours. Traveling at night would be dangerous.

Menachem Mendl of Kotz comments on the passage and the Midrash suggesting that Joseph understood that the brothers would hasten their steps in order to bring the wonderful news to their father that Joseph was still alive. For this reason Joseph said to them (according to Rabbi Kotz), “The hour of your arrival at your destination has been appointed by Heaven. And if you hurry on the way you will only be delayed by some other reason. So ‘don’t quarrel with the way’ (45:24) that has been appointed for you.”

The Kotzker reminds us that the preposition bet that is placed in front of the noun, derech (“way”) does not mean “in.” Sometimes it can be translated as “with.” Therefore ba-derech can be read as “with the say.” Therefore, acknowledge the divine way set before us, which we are supposed to accomplish. The route can be just as important as the destination.